I have read over 10 years worth of self help books and books in the metaphysical section of book stores. I didn't buy the books mind you, just read them in the book store. Here's what I've learned:

1. Be nice to others.
2. Be nicer to yourself.
3. Let shit ride, don't hold grudges.
4. Ask for more than you need.
5. Dream big, make big moves.
6 Don't take yourself too seriously.
7. Eating and sleeping keep you healthy.
8. No one. Knows what is better for you than you do.
9. Travel.
10. Your inner-child is your truest advisor, listen carefully.